Revision of Do you have any friends (who are not into vore) who know you like vore (whether it be sexual, artistic, or both). from Mon, 12/02/2019 - 15:40

I am 166cm tall. my girlfriend is 181cm, she is the perfect pred model. I wanted to talk about my vore fetish to her. But I'm afraid she thinks I'm weird and doesn't want to talk to me anymore. Does anyone have any tips?

It all came out by accident. I enjoyed making surreptitious jokes, someone worked it out and mentioned it at a party. I had had a bit to drink at that point and said "How do you know?" instead of denying it. Surprisingly, not that much judgement followed.

In the early days I had plenty of shame and even self hatred about my love for Vore, a lot of it spurred on by my specific tastes (no pun intended lol) within the vore community. I wished I was into something more vanilla like what the mainstream media often portrays. As the years went on though I really learned to better understand and accept who I am and even start to embrace it. 5 years on Eka's and even longer as a lone-wolf Vorarephile and someone generally raised by the edgy internet...I've learned there's just so much more sussy things you could be partaking in, so I'm counting this as a blessing that my fetish has absolutely zero way of hurting anyone lol. I'm into it sexually, but I appreciate the effort behind the artistic value as well. 

I came out to my best friends who I've known for 80% of my life a little while ago, and they were actually pretty accepting. If anything, a little envious that I was willing to tell them. One of my friends was heavily into feet and domination which is honestly pretty tame relative to me, and it practically had to be beaten out of him (in a friendly way mind you lmao). The rest of them have yet to do so, even within that big vore conversation. Very small handful of these friends were aware of people like JustinRPG, or were heavily into the meme scene when Vore was a huge meme in 2016. So some were already aware of Vore.

One of my Ex's by extreme coincidence somehow happened to be super into it, which was a huge shock for both of us. Some of my other Ex's were generally accepting and understanding as well.

The biggest reason I was afraid to tell them was actually not the fact that they'd think less of me. People, even just randos I meet in the street, often view me as an insanely successful, at the very least, very normal person. It's not even an ego thing, I get told this all the time. They're super surprised I'm into obscure internet stuff and have been for decades.

Ironically, it was the fear of having so many questions to answer that stopped me. There's the inevitable "so how does that turn you on?" that's really hard to explain, especially for me since my tastes are little...brutal. I feel I can't give a very good perspective on Vore because my tastes are kinda niche, even within the context of vore. Nothing illegal or too sus but also not something that's available in massive quantities on Eka's.

Then there's the cannibalism question. Then there's the question about anatomy and how you can even replicate it in real life. Then them pulling up instances of vore (mostly unintentional renderings) in like cartoons and games, or with animals, and being asked if any of it turns me on. Then the barrage of questions about any scenario you can possibly think of.

It's actually the main reason I still haven't told anyone who isn't insanely close to me (not that those people need to know anyways). I actually still haven't told my family unlike some of you f*ckers, now THAT shit's a little weird to me. And that's coming from someone who floods out unborn children to fantasies of them eating people whole.

A lot of people know i like vore and I continue as businesses as usual, I'm not proud of it but I'm not ashamed to be honest with myself about who i really am. I'm more scared of my family than the internet tho.

Well, with a bunch of bored millenials scrabbling for conversation topics, the subject of 'what's the weirdest shit you're into' was bound to come up eventually - especially since vore's kind of got a reputation as a jokey kind of thing. But because we don't really tend to get to that conversation topic often, it's almost never brought up - and they certainly don't mock me for it. Someone who DOES bring it up semi-often is my romantic partner, though. Whenever someone gets nommed in a video game or TV show either of us happen to be playing/watching /she gives me this smug fucking look./ And this morning (8/8th in the northern hemisphere) she nudged me awake to ask about vore day, which twitter had helpfully notified her of. Ah, love is bliss.

I'm into vore, but no one I know knows. I'm scared they'll look down on me for it, but I also kinda wish they knew. Am I the only one who thinks this way?

I've only just got into the scene and I don't plan on telling anyone. It's my business and I don't fancy telling people what I get off to.

It would be interesting how you'd actually start that conversation lol