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Male (Pred Tending/Dom Tending) Open for Ladies

Postby KnightleyPaine » Sat Dec 03, 2022 6:25 am

Welcome to my contact post.
Chances are I'm not looking, but you might be.

About me:

They say chicks dig jerks. According to my experiences here, I must be one of those specific jerks. Chicks who dig me sometimes claim I'm not really a jerk. I say they're a biased demographic.

I'm a guy and play as guys. Or at least things that can be considered male in some way. The reasons behind that are pretty childish, but you're probably not here for stories about me.

I only play with women. By which I mean IRL cis-gendered female, through and through. I'm not just boringly heterosexual, but also heteroromantic so my head has to register you entirely as feminine and I wasn't born with a flexible sense of attraction.

I'm here for the naughty stuff. There's various non-fetish sites where I get to flex a rich narrative and compelling plot and also partake in entertainment-based storytelling things like d20 tabletop RPGs. I can't really help if it bleeds over a bit, but I'm not here for that. I don't care to roleplay a real week-long dating progression, nor am I in need of justifying my kinks as some sort of art form or community contribution. I'll be your Cyrano de Bergerac and quote Thoughts in the Silent Night, but how Birnam Wood moved to Dunsinane is not what I've come to write.

I don't need you. There's a lot of lonely guys out there who could use some attention. I have attention. If you're just looking for any guy, consider browsing a little more, explore, give people a chance. You'll probably make someone very happy and grateful with your company. Contact me if you think it's me you want. I might want you.

Oh, and sorry for the edgy handle, past me is immature and dumb. I won’t judge yours if you won’t judge mine, deal?

Here's a link back to the 'Seeking Partners' board. Have a good stay on Eka's, hope you find what you're after.
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Kinks and Tags:


Mandatory:
If it doesn't include these, I'm not interested. If they do not interest you consistently, I'm not the person you want.
Ordered by likelihood of breaking the deal to save you time.

-Me as Male: If it doesn't involve me playing something decidedly masculine in nature, I won't play it.
-You as Female: If you are not a cis-gendered female IRL and also playing as one, I'm not interested (or comfortable actually) in interacting.
-Vaginal Sex: Speaking for myself here, but in my porn, people fuck.
-Erotic Context: When involved in a fetish fantasy, do not choose to make things mundane.
-Erotic Descriptiveness: I'm here to indulge. Describe things as if you were as well.
-OOC Consistency: Roleplay is a pretty time consuming commitment. Take a moment to consider if you have time for me.
-OOC Skill or courage: I have some mileage and it often shows. You’ve probably seen people demand that there is effort in writing, maybe you’ve even played a verbose person and felt overwhelmed before, or inadequate with a creeping suspicion that you must be screwing up because you feel your posts don’t stack up or something - I have too, I was in your shoes before. People who’ve been around for a while tend to accumulate some bias and gain a pet peeve here and there, and it can look intimidating. But everyone started somewhere, and I remember very well the days when I was new and thought I had to get "better". But now that the shoe's on the other foot, I've come to realize that being more verbose doesn't force me to look down on others. You’re welcome here, and if you have trouble, chances are I can probably try and help a bit. If you don’t have confidence in your own ability, just trust in my ability to tell you if it’ll be a problem between us, I tend to know what I want.
-Conventional Attractiveness: I’m the sort of guy who tends to notice the effort you put into appealing to me. Show me why I want you.


Vore Tags:
Common things I’m generally up to and enjoy. The above category has already guaranteed a basis of interest, so you don’t need to base yourself around quantity of tags.
Ordered by category and familiarity. The higher up compared to similar things, the more mileage I have and in theory, the more comfortable I am with it.

-M/F: This seems to be my calling.
-F/M: I might need some context in why you want me in you, I don’t work well with some.
-Same Size
-Macro/Micro: As long as enough time is spent at sizes where adequate sex happens, and the actual macro/micro play is at sizes where the characters can still properly engage.
-Soft Vore
-Hard Vore: I am desensitized towards the hard things, but not into gore for gore’s sake, so give me what context you like it in and I’ll tell you if it works for me.
-Willing Vore: Seems pretty shunned because of how it makes no sense, as opposed to the rest of the fetish? I have no trouble with this, and people seem to capitalize on that.
-Conflicted Vore: When you don’t want to be eaten… but you’re so into it.
-Engaged unwilling Vore: Unwilling prey that still plays off of the predator’s actions and nuances (See ‘dissonant unwilling’ in blacklist for contrast).
-Digestion
-Endo
-Perma Predding: You do what you want with your characters, but note that I might not be a good pick for this due to not mentioning it and preferring not being mentioned.
-CV: Only as pred.
-OV
-Unbirth: Only as prey, and context dependent.
-Cum Disposal: I tend to like putting that stuff to use, but condom trophies are neat too. Messy splatters are enjoyed, but behind the other two.
-Dom: One of those things that come pretty natural for me when playing pred.
-Sub: Like being prey, it's context dependent. Float me what it means to be a dom for you.
-OOC Teasing: Talking to each other like we'd actually do what our characters would, just for fun.


Special Tags:
I cater to some things that are a bit out of the way and not necessarily vore-related. Again, the mandatory category has me covered, just go shopping from here.
Ordered by writing interest. The higher up, the more intriguing it is for me to think about ways of integrating it into roleplay.

-Justice Porn: Hey, the world ain't fair and neither is life, so there's something thoroughly cathartic about exacting justice. Letting bad girls get what's coming to them is really fun.
-Being a fun villain pred: Conflict is the most common and obvious substance of interest in a story, and villains are the most obvious source of conflict. You could say a good villain is often a big part of making a good story, and I also find it thoroughly fun to do unto you as a compelling bad guy.
-Logistics of verisimilitude: Sometimes, fetishes make no sense or two kinks just don't seem to go together. The rebel and inventor inside me likes to disagree with that. It's probably for that reason that weirder concepts are higher up in this list.
-Trashy wish fulfillment: Have a weird idea you're ashamed of and always wanted to try, or a fantasy character you're into? I kind of like to scratch that off people's bucket lists. Note that I might not know your bae, in which case this has to be put off until I study them and determine if they click with me, I have extremely high standards on myself for portraying existing characters.
-Monsterboys: They're fun to play as and sometimes I get to make up nonsensical anatomy.
-Preds capable of fornication with their prey after having consumed them: This seems to have become a signature niche I've been catering to.
-Turnaround Pred: When your pred thinks they've gotten themselves something tasty, only to end up as prey themselves.
-Shota: I can play as a cutesy boy, but only certain types. Most of them are either prey or turnaround preds.
-Light Snuff: Death in an erotic context. If being killed in fantasy turns you on, I can make ends meet.
-Death on orgasm: Either you come while you go by convenient timing, or through some circumstance, the climax itself is fatal.
-Breathplay: Hanging, choking, strangling.
-Forniphilia: Treating you as furniture.
-Petrification: Become a commemorative token of your own o-face.
-Pet play: Treating you as my pet.
-Master/Owner: Some people consider me this, and I tend to play along. But it's more of an afterthought for me, my authority doesn't come from making people tell others they are my subjects, or set of rules where people don't get to play with you unless they ask me (unless that somehow turns you on - you do what you want with your roleplay habits). It comes solely from you wanting it. If you find a better one - just go with them, I do absolutely nothing to preserve this sort of allegiance. In other words, I'm only the master when I'm seen as the best and most desired. And I've not needed it any other way.
-Clothes and Clothed Sex: You put on your fancy dress because you wanted to look pretty while getting fucked, and also get to use this phrase in the literal sense.
-Womb Sex: When the phallus goes further than human anatomy intended, or a way to have fun with your unbirth victim.
-Cooking: I'm accidentally good at this. I have a tendency to like flashy recipes even though balanced meals are more useful, but here, my flamboyant culinary machismo actually pays off. Just tell me beforehand if you're mostly thinking about ovens, spits or cauldrons so I don't accidentally go too crazy.
-Implied Breeding: Implying you want to get impregnated.
-Bestiality: I never said I have to be a humanoid male. Yes, fantasy creatures count and yes, they can vore you.
-Bondage: From cuffing to elaborate binding patterns made to stimulate. But that if you're into something heavy with a lot of latex, I might need some help with the terminology.
-Feet: If you're into that.
-Biting: Leaving a couple teethmarks.
-Blood: Usually in the context of vampirism.
-Rape: See dissonant unwilling, I'm not very intrigued by extremely one-sided rapes.
-Mobile Suit Gundam, Universal Century Timeline: Sometimes guys have this inexplicable and stupid nerd factor where it intrigues them that you know something out of the way and not typically attributed to what girls would be into. For basic boys, one can often get by with Football or a popular FPS title. Advanced silly boys need obscure bullshit that isn't mainstream because they have a harder difficulty level. This one's mine. No, I'm not trying to put it into fetish roleplay, knowing stuff about this just makes me like you more for reasons that are wrong and irrelevant - so don't feel bad if it doesn't say anything to you in the slightest.
-Legend of Galactic Heroes, Heldensagen vom Kosmosinsel: I see you are a person of culture as well.


Blacklist:
These can never be included. If any happen to consistently be of interest to you, I'm not the person you want.
Ordered by my guess of how unexpected the factor would be for readers.

-Butt Stuff: This surprises and disappoints a lot of people (so it's high up), but I'm not into butt stuff.
-Characters I have trouble objectifying: This is also pretty unusual, many people seem able to fantasize over just about anyone, but sometimes I'm too strongly invested in a character as either a person or an icon and have trouble objectifying them for fetish purposes. For instance, I guess I'd find most depictions of Tifa Lockheart from FFVII visually appealing. But I never picked up FFVII for fetish purposes and squarely identify her only as game character. Also, there's the visual appeal of 'sunset over the ocean' and the visual appeal of 'makes my penis hard'. Both are visually appealing, but work in different ways. In other words, try not to use the images of too iconic canon characters.
-Interactions that are worthless to any narrative: You are under some obnoxious impression that talking about the weather for a bit labels your roleplay as having plot or need a section to blab about that backstory you thought up that doesn't play into anything relevant whatsoever. I prefer the hours I sink into roleplay to be spent on what is either compelling or fun. I don't expect everyone to be an amazing writer, I have really high standards and I get plenty of good narrative elsewhere (compelling), but on a fetish site, have the sense to appeal to my penis (fun).
-Dissonant/Hard Unwilling: Unwilling prey that is completely occupied with panic, sobbing, struggles or countless escape attempts. You might think this makes you ‘realistic’ or ‘interesting’ as a prey, but you'll either cause my empathy to screw with my enjoyment or just make me tired and bored, so you’re probably not with the right partner. This doesn't mean I'm just against unwilling, it's more of a player attitude thing.
-Everything you do is canon: I don’t get along well with such characters. I can't help but feel their entire point being the ‘evolving’ story is often one big sham because their meetings are arranged based on the player’s choices, the abilities they gain are usually just an inevitable progression towards Mary Suedom and I especially don’t want to deal with the clusterfuck they tend to accumulate on acquaintances, friends and family. If this somehow doesn’t apply to you, and I deem it safe, I might be okay with it if you keep me out of that canon.
-OOC Erraticism: You have the attention span of a squirrel on crack, or your preferences switch by mood and you frequently become unable to continue what you’ve started because of it.
-OOC You don’t have your shit together: You revel in the attention of a lot of people, are unable to say no to any of them and have at no point worked out a method of priority or getting anything done without being stalked and caught on a first come first serve basis and still think it’s a good idea promise more roleplays. Or maybe you have a significant other and have not actually figured out whether or not they are okay with you coming here and whether or not you consider this cheating and spend one day getting your kicks before breaking breaking down in guilt whenever you enjoy it too much. Seriously, get your things in order, this is a site for mature content, you should probably be mature in dealing with your baggage before coming here.
-OOC Flighty broads and their snarky horseshit: Maybe people let you get away with things because you’re somewhat attractive or ‘bubbly’, browsers are easy to close, and people you meet online can be turned off with a click of a button at no consequence. I get it, it’s easy not to care, and you’re here out of curiosity or because it makes you feel adventurous or naughty to peek in for half an hour and talk to one of it's denizens. Whatever, I won’t question it, you do you. But folks here are still real people with things to do who have to set time aside. Maybe don’t start arranging something you’ll never actually stick around to do.
-OOC Catfish: I don’t doubt the ability of guys or trans people to portray a woman I’d be attracted to, I just don’t want to roleplay with them even if they do. I do not dislike said people, they simply do not have my consent when it comes to things I consider sexual in nature.
-OOC Haggling: Let me make this clear, I’d rather have no roleplay than roleplay involving things I don’t want or without the things I require, and have no desire to ‘trade’ doing something I don’t want for a scene I’d want.
-OOC Overbearing judgmental behavior: If you see someone make a methodical approach, it’s fair to tell them you work better in a more spontaneous arrangement (or vice versa). Deciding over their heads they’re incapable or weak at the spontaneous arrangement is bad, and you should feel bad for doing it.
-OOC Overbearingly insecure possessiveness: I do my best and have a pretty good track record of paying attention to my partners and setting time aside for them. But please don’t assume you get to control any of that.
-OOC Toxic Tendencies: You guilt trip people, don’t have your emotions under control - requiring others to suffer them, gaslight those who engage with you and constantly need to extract sympathy while exerting control. If it’s a clinical condition, I’m sorry for you, but I'm neither obligated nor willing to to cater to it. If not, I don't know what to say but you don't deserve anything climactic from me anyways.
-Too much dirt: Going beyond a bit of musk and sweat into focusing on it.
-BV
-AV
-Scat/Watersports/Gas, including as disposal


Tags you didn't see:
Because those lists are long enough as is.
If you don't see a tag that would be a relevant interest for you, it's likely because I'm accepting of it but it's neither a commonly demanded one nor one I've frequently had to cater to. That, or I forgot about it. As long as it's not on the Blacklist, I'm likely okay with it, just ask to be safe.


You're one of those people who actually read everything:
Spoiler: show
Okay first of all that's a good sign. Roleplay is a text-based medium. It helps not to be annoyed by reading. But really, this part can be skipped, it's mostly ramblings.

Roleplay is kind of a commitment and tends to take hours and days:
Unless you play with extreme brevity and are okay with 'I grab and eat you', it tends to take time to get somewhere. It's also social, you're deciding to interact with a real person across the web as opposed to just playing a porn game or reading erotic fanfiction that someone wrote. A roleplayer may not be a RL obligation, but they're also not simple games and programs with no feelings when you stood them up, forget about them or leave mid-conversation without warning. Somewhere, there is an actual person you can inconvenience, but also an actual person who will go along with you to explore what you otherwise can't. Show some appreciation by treating others with the kind of respect you'd give people, and take a moment to consider whether you have everything in order and actual time for roleplay. If this is just a bout of boredom because for once you're not going out and not in the middle of a game, you'll just end up promising what you can't fulfill. If you have any experiences of people not texting back, being stood up or being completely ignored, hold onto that feeling for a moment, and remember that you are not one bit better if you do not treat others better - whether it's in your physical surroundings, or across the web.

My gallery:
It's... kind of short on the things you expected to see? That's probably because I asked random people what they want me to draw, they're not even necessarily people I know or like. In fact, I'm pretty sure I've come to despise one person I've drawn something for, and they were pretty notorious and banned from here. Basically, my gallery doesn't represent my interests in the slightest, and I'm not really an artist by my own standards. An artist creates works of art, contributions to our culture. I'm only an 'artist' in the sense of 'guy who drew stuff sometimes', and even that isn't something I'm big on. People used to say I have a talent for drawing when I was a kid, but I've always valued other things more, I only draw out of a sense of nostalgia and to get some practice back, so I don't really express myself that way.

My writing quality:
I have nothing to prove here. Quality is often relative and in the eye of the beholder, and I'm not going to claim I'm objectively good - just that I've been given various reasons for confidence. The person I consider the best roleplayer on this site I've met considers me the best roleplayer on this site. English teachers ask me if I'm an author. Authors (by which I mean people who have published books that are being sold, not some guy who posted a story in this site's gallery) come to me for critique and sometimes get to abuse me as an editor they don't have to pay for. And let me tell you, it's nifty, but isn't an end-all thing. People are here to indulge in their little kinks, I simply have the luxury of being able to adapt a few styles and have a lower chance of offending people who require some effort in writing to enjoy it, but at the end of the day it's about finding someone liking the things you do. Even if it's just the writing, people have different tastes and the concept of literature is an art form that has it's own aspirations, ideals and various qualities that change over time and certain things speak to certain audiences. So I'm not going to claim I'm a good roleplayer, that's not my decision to make, but yours. All I promise is that I'll put some effort in and hope you'll do too. If you happen to like me though, try not to judge others, it's a nonsensical thing to do because different people respond to and prefer different factors.

My demands for writing quality:
The best way to go about it is thinking of your objective that it's to please the other person. Write as if you were trying to please your partner. I don't care about the exact amount of words or lines you produce, or your 'performance', I care about that we're having fun. Yes, there's a bit of quality needed in it, for instance if you violate grammar to the point where your partner constantly needs to stop and decipher the alphabet soup you've spilled all over them, that's usually not fun for them.

My popularity:
There's probably a few implications of that in this post. How else do you think I get away with such a user-unfriendly 'Seeking Partner' post? Hahaha~! I'm not anyone specifically important though, I just happen to be on good terms with the audience I want after having adjusted myself between being flooded and getting what I'm here for. Basically, this mainly exists out of a completionist whim, and exists more for you to find me than for me to find people. I'll be upfront about it if I'm too crowded around the time you show up, apologies for that in advance.

You've seen my posts before and think I'm either a stuck up robot or a troll:
People react differently under different situations. But I consider any reputation gained to have been deserved in some way, you're the one in control how you deal with your prejudices towards a person, not me. If this has lost your interest then I deserve to lose your interest.

You are new to this:
Just say it. Everyone was at one point. If you're new and willing to learn, I'm willing to help... you to enjoy roleplay with me. Not draw your character or something, go find someone more desperate or gullible to pull those favors out of! Hahaha~

I intimidate you:
Maybe it's the self-assured bravado, or that I seem like a vet of sorts, whether this means I exude experience or expectations that you're feeling weighing on you right now. I know it's easy for me to say 'don't worry about it' - you'll feel what you'll feel, that's fine, I'm not here to haggle you into playing with me and then yell at you for being bad at it. But for what it's worth, I'll still say it. We're just a bunch of run-off-the-mill pervs on a niche fetish site. Don't see me as 'a roleplayer', just figure whether I turn you on.

I intimidate you because all of this seems very sexual and that intimidates you:
You've made the conscious decision to sign up on a site clearly advertising itself for fetish content and are looking for a roleplay partner. If you're still somehow a shy person that's your problem. Look, this is just an advertisement thread, you back out of it your life goes on. Contact me when you want me.

Be careful when sending pictures or sharing personal information:
I know, it's weird to have this section, but apparently I need to make it. I don't need your nudes (in case you haven't noticed, there's porn on the internet). If I don't know you and get nudes it's just really confusing and the only instinct it triggers is my concern about you. I get that it excites some people, but consider cropping your face out. Especially things like your full name, face or address can lead to unwanted consequences down the line. Don't just trust strangers on the internet, including me. You don't know that I'm not a crazed axe murderer.

You are one of those people who in the back of their heads think they might find a SO here because anything can happen:
Flirt with people all you want, but remember they're likely pretty far away and likely won't quit their day job to rescue you out of your boring life (and the ones who would are often not the ones you want). That includes me, if it looks like I'm flirting with you, I'm not doing so as some hormone-driven boy latching on to the first female thing that pays attention to them (you'll find those a plenty if you want them though, so don't worry about that), but because people who talk to me tend to want to be entertained, and I tend to deliver. But for goodness' sake, whatever you hope for, take on your approach with some maturity.

English is my third language:
I'm not a Native speaker and it leads to me using bigger expressions or more roundabout phrases than necessary because I instinctively feel the need to get nuances out and picked up weird bits of vocabulary all over the place. It probably doesn't help that I kind of like it that way. Sorry about that.

I'd rather be rejected than ghosted:
I need to manage my free time to assure a level of availability in case of promising out roleplay. Letting me hang just makes a timeslot uncertain, and I might become unavailable when you want to play again later. Please understand if that happens.


You really read through all of this? Have a reward.
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Contact Instructions:

Write me a PM in which you explain to me:

1.) Why me. 'It was the first one on the list' is a valid reason, this is a test, just not a very hard one.
2.) What your main kink is. Avoid concepts that are tied to skill or imagination such as 'a good story', use solid contexts like 'you enjoy being in a stomach because you feel it's intimate'.
3.) What you find attractive, this includes visuals and should include as many discriminating factors as you can figure. Don't 'leave options open for me', that's not actually helpful. If you suck at that, use this reference, or explain what extremes cause it to not be on the reference or just outright send me images of people you find hot (I likely won't use them unless you ask me to, but it helps me feel more confident about what to offer).
4.) Things I should absolutely avoid (your 'no' list).
5.) What you're playing as, or what options I'd have.
6.) Whether you think you can actually put time aside for roleplay. This sounds like a weird demand because it is, I just want to make more people think about it.
7.) Impress me.

-I tend to play on the on-site chat.
-I do not exchange IMs with strangers, that just leads to countless meaningless contacts.
-Only contact me for the purpose of roleplay.
-I will tell you if I'm overextended, and if the likelihood of us playing is unrealistic to the point that you shouldn't bother. I'm not here to lead anyone on.
-Consider our first scene to be trying each other out, make sure it's something fun so it's worth your time, and put in what you need to discern if you'll like me.

Here's another link back to the 'Seeking Partners' board. Have a good stay on Eka's, hope you find what you're after.


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