Has Anyone Ever Discovered Your Vore Fetish

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Re: Has Anyone Ever Discovered Your Vore Fetish

Postby unit72 » Fri Jun 03, 2022 1:00 pm

No one. Only some people in the internet who I trust know because I told them about it.

The true secrecy is difficult to maintain. You need to keep in mind that browsers by default remember sites that you access frequently and will suggest them, as well as input fields even on different sites, your applications remember the folder where you saved/opened your files and these files themselves, your system remembers and suggests most frequently used applications, your clipboard may contain something you forgot about, your content can be found by its size on a disk or by its latest change date, when you delete something it's not deleted but only is in the trashcan folder, and people silently come from behind at every moment.

You need to counter all of this.
I always use private browsing mode, my few files that I store are well hidden, applications and system are set to not remember history, and so on. I was distracted three times while writing this post, and I cleared the clipboard and closed the browser each time.
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Re: Has Anyone Ever Discovered Your Vore Fetish

Postby Lavendercake877 » Fri Jun 03, 2022 1:49 pm

azazelthedemon15, dang i envy you dude


Amaco, omg why are you replaying my life o.o only mine happend hen i was 21 . that was when i first saw vore. I mean i liked it since i can remeber but this was the first time i saw other people liked it as well. i think i was around 22 (i have autismie so mentally i have the brain of a teen ^^;) long story short, mom found out,all hell broke lose it was not a good week...month actually. . It wasn't even a innocent one it was one NSFW on eka's and she had always thought i never looked at porn. It was so heart breaking seeing how heartbroken she was. we still have a good relationship but she has no idea i'm still on here. and i'm hoping it stays that way 0.0
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Re: Has Anyone Ever Discovered Your Vore Fetish

Postby Amaco » Fri Jun 03, 2022 3:37 pm

Lavendercake877 wrote: (I have autismie so mentally i have the brain of a teen ^^;)


I'm also autistic. So I know exactly what you mean. My social and emotional age has always lagged behind my physical age.

I've also noticed that a lot of people on here are somewhere on the spectrum. I wonder if there's a connection between being on the spectrum and Vorarephilia.
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Re: Has Anyone Ever Discovered Your Vore Fetish

Postby JadeMarauder » Fri Jun 03, 2022 5:39 pm

I'm actually surprised that my immediate family hasn't figure it out. I'm an aspiring author, and I share a lot of my drafts with them. There are some... shall we say, not very subtle vore moments in some of them. To be fair, I don't think they know that vore is a fetish in the first place, so they probably have no reason to connect the dots.
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Re: Has Anyone Ever Discovered Your Vore Fetish

Postby Razkor » Fri Jun 03, 2022 6:47 pm

As I've gotten older, as I've grown further from the anxiety and fear of being a young voraphile living with family at home, and as I've had more experiences talking about vore directly with actual people who know me IRL, I have found:

People look at vore one way when it's just another weird fetish on the internet.
They look at it another way when it means something to someone they know.
When the gap of anonymity is bridged and they can see how personally it means something to someone.


A lot of people kinda get it anyways, especially if they've ever heard explanations of specific appeals, versus stumbling into rando search results.

Some people do think it's gross, and that does sting to hear. But ask yourself, did they know what it meant to you when they expressed that?

Do you think that knowledge could affect their view?


I know that I've damaged myself more by keeping this part of me closed off and screwed up tight, than I would have by leaving it open.

Maybe I'm lucky, but without fail, telling potential partners about vore has only ever gone well, and is honestly just an amazing experience once you get through the sheer nervous terror leading up to it.

Granted, I don't ever want to have that conversation with my parents, and that specific environment is where so much of the closed-offedness comes from.

So, if you're stuck there right now, I don't know if any of this is helpful. I'm still working on all of this myself. But I do know that anxiety you feel, and I that it can get better. It sounds to me like talking to your friend about it would go well <3.
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Re: Has Anyone Ever Discovered Your Vore Fetish

Postby eatme1234 » Fri Jun 03, 2022 6:55 pm

When I was a teenager I used to use a program on my parent's computer which made files/folders hidden and inaccessible unless you knew the password for the program. I used that to hide all my NSFW content: I would only unlock the folder when I knew it was safe, and locking it back up was as simple as pressing a hotkey (incase someone tried to sneak up on me). That kept me safe until one day I got my own laptop.

Wanting to move my files onto my computer, I figured I'd sneak in late at night, and "borrow" my sister's external hard drive (I didn't have one at the time). I was very curious about NSFW at that time, so I had a pretty large folder with various fetishes to see which ones tickled my fancy. Unfortunately that meant it was going to take longer than expected to put everything on the drive. I was hoping it was late enough at night that I would be safe, but my sister woke up (probably to get something to drink/eat) and found the computer on. She shut off the computer and noticed her external hard drive was still in the system so she took it. I tried to tell her that I was trying to port over some things over to my computer, but she was upset over the fact that I didn't ask her first. Being the nosy sister that she is, she eventually looked to see what I was transferring over.

Next day I was greeted by my two very angry parents. Of course I couldn't really defend myself. But the worst part about it all was that they forced me to sit down while my sister went through each folder and showed them random pictures/videos, opened random games, etc. At first it was just "normal" things such as a few MILF and facesitting pictures, but I remember:

- Her opening up Monster Girl Quest, but quitting right at the tutorial (Luckily the title was still in Japanese)
- Her opening up a few hentai such as Queen's blade
- Her opening up a few Ranmaru Graphics (Which my parents think I have a thing for extremely overweight girls now). It wasn't any of the vore ones though ^^; .
- Some Japanese tentacle monster game (I don't even remember downloading that one)
- A few giantess rpg maker games, but luckily they didn't get far enough to see anything.

As they were going down the list, they were starting to get closer to the giantess and vore stuff, and that I was starting to panic about. I don't quite remember what happened, but I remember seeing an opportunity (I think my sister went to the bathroom) and sprinting at the computer fighting back my parents and force deleting the entire folder. I was able to keep them off the computer long enough to see everything permanently deleted. Time has passed though, so they don't mention it, they just deemed it me being curious. The only times they mention it is the occasional reference to that Ranmaru comic.

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I wish I could say that was the last time I got caught though. Despite having my own password protected computer, somehow my sister was able to find out all about my vore stuff, along with the NSFW games that I work on. As far as she's concerned, vore is no different to her than cannibalism or guro. Now anytime we get into a heated argument, she always threatens to tell my parents about the content I work on. For now I have successfully convinced them that that stuff is false, but I feel they still have their doubts. Her last attempt to expose me involved her finding out about my Patreon and trying to tell them that was my account. I had to create another temporary Patreon just to throw them off the trail. I am afraid that at some point I may not be able to keep the charade, and I'm concerned at how my parents will see me if they knew the truth. For now all I can do is greatly increase my computer security and hope for the best.
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Re: Has Anyone Ever Discovered Your Vore Fetish

Postby Sitharc » Fri Jun 03, 2022 8:30 pm

As far as real life goes? Not really as far as I'm aware except for maybe a friend of mine when we found out who each other were on Deviantart and if he looked at my favorites at all.

If anyone else irl knows somehow, they haven't said anything about it.

Otherwise, as far as I'm aware no one else irl knows as privacy is a big thing for me, and my family is good (especially now since an adult) at respecting it and not checking my things. Even back when I did save stuff on the family computer, I kept things hidden and was aware of certain tricks to make sure things they'd save wouldn't load up the folder I used for my fetish porn. I'd only look at it when I knew it was safe to. I never had TONS of it either, so when used a flash drive to transfer to my own machine, it didn't take a long time.
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Re: Has Anyone Ever Discovered Your Vore Fetish

Postby Miridium » Sat Jun 04, 2022 10:52 am

Amaco wrote:
Lavendercake877 wrote: (I have autismie so mentally i have the brain of a teen ^^;)


I'm also autistic. So I know exactly what you mean. My social and emotional age has always lagged behind my physical age.

I've also noticed that a lot of people on here are somewhere on the spectrum. I wonder if there's a connection between being on the spectrum and Vorarephilia.

How funny. I too am on the spectrum (very high functioning) and share this fetish. Nice to see others who are in the same boat as me.
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Re: Has Anyone Ever Discovered Your Vore Fetish

Postby Rumor » Sat Jun 04, 2022 1:33 pm

Onmawarpath wrote:If you have a good hiding place, a physical piece of paper with your passwords on it is surprisingly safe, everything is digital nowadays, so people don't bother checking the physical world, but with that being said, and it should go without saying, but don't leave it out in the open.


Ah, don't do this. If someone is really intending to snoop then they're going to find that piece of paper. The "hidden paper with my passwords on it" is the oldest trick in the book. But if you absolutely must write your passwords down then at least "encrypt" them somehow with a basic cipher. Like, for example, if your password is "hello", you could do a super basic cipher of just raising the letter count by one which would make it "ifmmp". It's easy to break, especially if they use online decrypters to help them, but at least it'd render people who are clueless about ciphers completely stumped which likely includes the average person.

Ideally though, come up with a better way to remember your passwords that don't require recording them. If you're struggling with the classic suggested "random letters and numbers" thing (and most do), just come up with a phrase you'd easily recall and swap some letters with symbols/numbers. Something like "Cak31sB3tt3rThanP13!" (CakeIsBetterThanPie! with Es as 3s and Is as 1s) is much easier to remember than something like "fh!56@g7" and, funny enough, also harder for a computer to brute force.
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Re: Has Anyone Ever Discovered Your Vore Fetish

Postby DramaticSunshine » Sat Jun 04, 2022 2:57 pm

OH WERE IN FOR A DOZEY

Ironically I only told my boyfriend a ( a few ) Friends about it, and my two exes that I still have contact with, I think my boyfriend only got into it cuz we would "Jokingly" write Vore Fics, even though we actually took our time to write out a paragragh and all. Roleplay would probably be a better term but, eh, this was sometime 2-4 years ago. But he soon came to enjoying it, but rarely makes art and just roleplays it with me. Isn't that a tad bit weird? maybe not.

Though, if its IRL wise, I used to not lock my phone back then and used to run this Vore account on instagram back in 2015 ( 2016? I dunno ), my cousins who unfortunately don't live around here anymore got onto my phone and accidentally saw my instagram account. this was WAY before I found out about Eka's portal. So..that was a really huge yikes, but they thankfully seemed to stop and move on from it, I sadly don't have contact of them anymore minus visiting one of them when I went to Orlando for the fall. He's gotten better.

Otherwise, I usually kept my vore thing a secret, fell out of it, and then immediately got back into it. Hence might be the reason im so strict with keeping my internet stuff personal...
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Re: Has Anyone Ever Discovered Your Vore Fetish

Postby Amaco » Sat Jun 04, 2022 3:38 pm

Miridium wrote:How funny. I too am on the spectrum (very high functioning) and share this fetish. Nice to see others who are in the same boat as me.


Oh yeah, you''re not alone in that.
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Re: Has Anyone Ever Discovered Your Vore Fetish

Postby Eka » Sat Jun 04, 2022 4:03 pm

The conventional statistic estimation is that they are represented disproportionally because text is going to be their prefered communication method.

There is no real way to know for sure without another survey.
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Re: Has Anyone Ever Discovered Your Vore Fetish

Postby FishnorFowl » Sat Jun 04, 2022 6:33 pm

Huh interesting I’m autistic to
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Re: Has Anyone Ever Discovered Your Vore Fetish

Postby Flubber » Sat Jun 04, 2022 6:51 pm

Wait, It's all autistic?

Always has been

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Re: Has Anyone Ever Discovered Your Vore Fetish

Postby NAACCOUNT101 » Sat Jun 04, 2022 7:35 pm

i told my closet friend who i talked to about weird shit and is usually quiet but i was scared about it at first because i am not into snuff, fatal or anything like vore because i hurting something i liked it more so because it is very dom and sub related, i like chubby women or femboys and weight gain plus big butts so it tied into it, and i like the giant partner swallowed lover kissing by mistake or a bully like friend that loves messing with people and mouth play was over=sized oral. when i said it i was frighten he would think im insane but he was fine with it and told me dont be worried but never mention with those who clearly doent understand unusual kinks.
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Re: Has Anyone Ever Discovered Your Vore Fetish

Postby PigeonsFedora » Sat Jun 04, 2022 7:54 pm

I told my ex about it, but he was really confused on how to "act it out." I think he didn't really understand that it was a fantasy kink, but he got around to the idea after awhile. Still thought it was weird, but he was open to a lot of different kinks.
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Re: Has Anyone Ever Discovered Your Vore Fetish

Postby Jayezox » Sun Jun 05, 2022 12:23 am

Lots of heartbreaking stories on here. Vore is aberrant and there's no denying that, but as long as it's not hurting anyone there is no reason to cause emotional grief over it. I still hold to my theory that it is the manifestation of trauma or sexual deprivation. I also think having autism or another mental disability can act as a catalyst, but that's based on pure speculation. Thankfully no one in my life has found out. I always did a good job hiding my fetishes and I always will.
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Re: Has Anyone Ever Discovered Your Vore Fetish

Postby Primatalus » Sun Jun 05, 2022 8:45 am

The only people who know are my closest friends and girlfriend. Midway through the lockdown in 2020 we were all very bored and decided to each fill out a fetish chart and share them with each other. All that came out of that is that we tease each other about it at times in private. As for my girlfriend, it's not her thing but she was understanding and interested in why I found it appealing. So yeah, nothing negative there fortunately.

The only other people who might know are my parents and elementary school friends, as I used to simulate vore scenarios when playing as a kid before I understood it wasn't normal. Of course it was a non-sexual thing back then, and I stopped showing that interest publicly as I got older, so they probably chalk it up to kids having weird phases if they still remember.
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Re: Has Anyone Ever Discovered Your Vore Fetish

Postby 157and493 » Sun Jun 05, 2022 10:39 am

At this point pretty much everyone who knows me on a personal levels knows I am into vore because I am open about it and make jokes about it often.
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Re: Has Anyone Ever Discovered Your Vore Fetish

Postby Amaco » Sun Jun 05, 2022 9:22 pm

Update on me...

So I finally talked to my best friend about vore and they were totally cool with it. They actually had a lot of questions and wanted to know more about it. So I gave an overview. They're not into it, but they completely understood why some people would find intimacy in it. How the idea of being completely consumed by someone could be felt as comforting or erotic. They just had no trouble grasping the concept. They also said if I ever want to talk about my mixed feelings with vore, they're free to talk to.

I wanted to thank Razkor for the encouragement. It's a really nice feeling having at least one close friend that knows and is ok with it. Suddenly it doesn't feel like this big dark secret anymore. :)
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