How deep does this fetish go?

[157and493]

I came to a realization a while ago that my interest is vore completely dominants my sexuality identity. I have known about how much vore affected me for a while but what I recently realized is how unaffected I am by “normal” sexual things.

Things like breasts, genitalia, and sex have absolutely no effect on me, I do not feel aroused or even uncomfortable when I see them just completely apathetic, however when I see something like a bloated stomach or someone swallowing something whole it does make me feel a bit uncomfortable because it feels like I am witnessing a sexual act even though nobody else sees it that way. When I hear the words “penis” or “vagina” I do not get the feeling that I had just heard a “dirty word,” but when I hear words like “stomach” or “digestion” I feel like I am hearing someone talk about something sexual.

I am not sure if I managed to get across what I am trying to say, but the main question I wanted to pose with this post is: Does anyone else feel this way?

[ArcaneSigil]

Personally I don't. I know what you mean, but I personally don't feel that way. I still get turned on by the sight of a vagina or breasts in my face. My go to porn, however, is vore porn. Or pony porn. I prefer those to the normal stuff.

[rabidPsionic]

When I hear the words “penis” or “vagina” I do not get the feeling that I had just heard a “dirty word,” but when I hear words like “stomach” or “digestion” I feel like I am hearing someone talk about something sexual.

I absolutely feel this way. Even if someone talks about being hungry, that triggers a slight reaction in me. Normal porn also grosses me out a little. I can't stand the sight of a vagina, for instance, which lead me to believe I was gay, but seeing a dick didn't elicit any reaction, not even one of disgust.

[blessedwasthechild]

I'm not saying anyone responding to this is asexual but I've talked with asexual people with fetishes they considered to be sexual fetishes without it undermining their awareness and identity as ace-individuals. Conversely it shouldn't be surprising that if we have people who are very sexual but love vore but not in a sexual way, we must have the opposite yeah?

[VoraciousSincerity]

I'm not saying anyone responding to this is asexual but I've talked with asexual people with fetishes they considered to be sexual fetishes without it undermining their awareness and identity as ace-individuals. Conversely it shouldn't be surprising that if we have people who are very sexual but love vore but not in a sexual way, we must have the opposite yeah?

Nicely put Blessed!

[LoonyLizard]

Gosh, I feel the exact same way!!
I find regular porn unappealing, genitals looks kind of nasty, imo
If I watch a movie with my family and there is some sexual scene in a movie I feel nothing. When there is vore, that's embarrassing and awkward.

[Denco]

How deep does this fetish go? All the way to the bottom if you're into that.

[Miridium]

How deep does this fetish go? All the way to the bottom if you're into that.

It's turtles all the way down

[asdaf]

It is entirely possible that any kind of fetish, vore being a good example, can totally replace your normal sexual attractions and habits.
There are lots of ace/asexual people in the community and broader who describe this.

I have traditional attraction now but I didn't used to.
If you feel bad about it it's possible to change. If you feel fine about it... well, also good! Vore is hotter than sex anyway. Cha-ching

[quickcrunch]

Vore tends to dominate my sexuality as well. I often tell others I am asexual, but there isn't quite a label you could for sincere put on me since I am repulsed by sex entirely in a real life sense, but in a fictional setting I can be willing to do it with the right situations. I do not like traditional genitalia though, and just thinking about normal cocks, or breasts, or vaginas just bores me, it makes me feel uninterested. I don't entirely link vore with sex, but seeing vore things I like tends to make me feel very happy, and nice, and if it's just the way I like it then for sure I will get very excited, and even aroused. I've had friends tease about eating me before though, even as a joke, and not knowing what I like, and it's made me much more flustered than someone saying they wanted to kiss me all over. When someone says they want to have sex with me, I feel absolutely nothing, and sometimes I even feel very uncomfortable, or disgusted, but if someone talks about wanting to swallow me slowly, or put me in their mouth, or lick, and taste me, then it makes me go beet red I swear to god!!
I totally understand where you are coming from in some aspects, and you are way valid for it dude. I prefer my vore rather desexualized anyways in art, and in rp. I'm pretty glad I have some buddies that respect that, and even feel the same way as me, you're totally not alone in this!

I feel like vore as a fetish can get pretty deep, but it's not researched a whole lot unfortunately. I recall reading the few nonsexual statements about it speaking about how some who enjoy vore want to rid of lonely feelings, and feel like they are becoming a part of something greater. Those statements aren't inherently sexual. I know a lot of sexual aspects about vore come from domination, the thrill, danger, fear, and humiliations, but there is much more to crack open with it. Some people like it just to feel safe, or hidden away from the real world since it's too much to handle sometimes. Some people like it because of how extreme it can be taken. There's so much that goes into this for real, and I love to learn a lot about it because of this!

[Matteo42]

I'll be honest, I really feel like that too. I'd just gladly prefer some good old Eka over any pornhub stuff.
Now, I do love me some nice tidies, don't get me wrong. I just don't feel the same excitement as when I'm reading/looking at stuff from this community, and I certainly wouldn't take sex over cuddling or something, since that is just heavenly
Dicks repell me, but I don't mind some pussy or tits, like I said before.

[EmilyNidhoggr]

For me it goes all the way down. I was never even slightly aroused by anything until I started drawing vore scenarios in my late teens. Didn't even try flicking the bean until I was 19, around the time I found out other people drew the same kind of thing. Still get absolutely grossed out by porn, or any fetishisation of sex or sexuality. It's or nothing for me.

[Tilalumtar]

Does anyone else feel this way?

Yup, even though I still have the attraction to normal sexual interactions though the excitment is way less than anything that's got to do with vore.

I completely understand you and feel the same way. Especially the part where you feel like you heard something intimate and sexual when someone talks about "stomach" etc.
I personally really dislike using the word "eating" or anything that's got to do with it. It repells me to hear words like that from people I don't know and don't feel attracted to, because, and that's exactly what you are feeling, it just seems like they are talking about intimate stuff which I don't want to hear from them.

[Trollfacegesicht]

Exactly the same for me. Found out I'm asexual this way.

[creepydude1980]

I prefer those to the normal stuff.

Seriously, what does "normal" even mean.

As my username suggests, I am OLLLLLLLD. I'll be 41 this year. I'm probably one of the oldest people on this board! I grew up in a primarily pre-internet era, and didn't even know vore was a thing until I was in my late twenties. I honestly thought I was the only person who felt arousal from this kink. Knowing I wasn't alone was actually very cathartic and quite comforting. That being said, I have to admit to some level of shame from the fetish. It is quite taboo on its own. Also, my background had a high level of male toxicity: jocks, bro culture, etc. I am trying to get past that all, but it is a challenge. I look at myself and feel some level of shame for my fetish, but I would never judge anyone else for their own feelings on the matter. That's just another challenge I need to tackle.

Anyway, enough about me. Let's get to the question. As a CIS, hetero male I still have a strong sexual attraction to women outside of the vore lens. I am single now but I have had a couple of relationships, both of which lasted four years respectively. Just the other day, I was bantering with a woman who I found very attractive. I did not correlate vore with that interaction. I separate my real world attractions from my fantasies. In my mind, the vore is an impossibility and it resides completely within the realm of fantasy and imagination.

I never speak of my fetish, not with either of my partners or my best friends. I have never spoken of it openly. I do see a therapist to manage my depression, but have never talked about my fetish with him either. It is my deepest, darkest secret. It is my go to, but I still find deep attraction in non-vore related scenarios.

Sometimes my fetish discourages me from engaging in said non-vore related interactions. I feel like I am damaged or gross, and just not worth the attention of a supposed normie. I know that is not healthy, and I am trying to get past it, but it is a challenge for me. Anyway, that's where I am with all this. Thank you for reading!

[shireishi]

Normal content does little for me, however involve vore and it's suddenly really good. Like feeding a partner tiny victims before fucking and imagining what is happening inside, or a male predator consuming tiny victims and digesting them, with their essence being converted into semen to be used during sex. That kind of stuff is really good.

[theonlymatt]

How deep does this fetish go? All the way to the bottom if you're into that.

Came looking for this comment, was not disappointed.

[Dyrsig]

Yeah, same here. It's become a... problem with regards to dating or anything like that. I absolutely feel nothing at most conventional porn or mention of genitalia, but vore or anything to do with stomachs and stuff makes me feel like I'm hearing something forbidden.

It's like if someone's normal love language is sex and kissing, mine has just been completely removed and replaced with vore and belly stuff. it's weird! I wouldn't say I loathe it but it makes things very complicated lol.

[blergle]

I guess I'm lucky. For me, vore is a kink and an interest, and it can be either sexually interesting or just interesting in the way an action movie is interesting, depending on my mood and the material. I have a lot of other kinks and a lot of other sexual interests, and my vore interest does not interfere with any of those. It is like a favorite food preference, where I may like it more than less favored options but the lack of presence does not destroy my appetite for other things.

After CreepyDude1980's post I have to wonder if age is a factor in involvement/reliance on vore. I also relegate vore completely to the realm of fantasy and separate it from real-life sexual interactions or thoughts, and I'm also "old". xD Maybe those of us who did not grow up with the internet providing easy access to kink exploration had longer to separate it?

[SinLion]

It's very odd now that I think about it that, despite vore being one of the earliest kinks I can recall ever having, I actually don't think vore is much more than a kink for me haha. It's a little weird to say because I write (or used to write, considering I haven't posted anything here in almost two years ) vore content and I actually used to post that stuff quite regularly. I mean, I guess it could be considered a very big kink of mine because I like exploring it more than some other stuff but vore isn't really a necessity for me. A hot dude still definitely gets me going and I've definitely had my share of embarrassing fictional crushes where how "viable" they were in vore content was rarely considered.
I haven't given being in a relationship much thought recently because, you know, but I guess if I were in a serious committed relationship with someone I'd probably prefer if they knew I liked vore, only because it would just be so awkward if someone I was in a relationship with found out years in that I thought big dudes eating other big dudes was really hot