Desire to find a boyfriend/girlfriend into vore?

[AshLovehart]

I talked about this already in another thread I think, but in the unlikely event that the impossible happens and Prince Charming on horseback shows up on my doorstep, I would actively prefer him to NOT be into vore.

Vore is my special thing. I'm content living it out in my head and on paper. Bringing it into the "real" world is more likely to ruin it. The only way I would be ok with vore being an open topic is if that Prince Charming actually was Bowser, the Koopa King himself. A non-fictional human partner however, there are much more important things that man should be capable of. Like, having a job. Providing emotional support. Staying up all night playing videogames with me. That is the meatspace man of my dreams.

(Maybe also should add that I'm sorta asexual IRL, so sexual interaction of any variety, including dirty talk or roleplaying, wouldn't be on the table to begin with.)

See, this is again where I wanna clarify more of my interests.

I would like if my partner were into it, or if I could get them into it. BUT[b][/b] NEVER verbally. Like, idk, something about even hearing the word 'vore' out loud in real life makes me lock up, my scrin crawl, and I want to hide in a hole forever from embarrassment.

Now, if it could be something my partner and I could playfully send texts to eachother about, or have a sort of extra 'vore' life online on places like here to get art/stories together, that'd be super cute and nice. But I would NEVER wan my partner to verbally bring it up to me.

[DraconianTalon]

I would just be happy to have a girlfriend. Been single my whole life.

[KnightleyPaine]

I'm curious to know how many people want/have a boyfriend/girlfriend who is into vore just as much as you are?

Fortunately I'm not too hung up on that. Though I guess in the off-chance someone on here somehow becomes my gf they'd luck out on getting someone to play along, but we're on the internet and everyone is god knows where, so actually getting together becomes a less than realistic feat even though half the site worth of women can get themselves attracted to me. What, are you going to quit your day job and fly to Guam?

Do you want/have a pred bf/gf? or a prey bf/gf?

Not too hung up on this.

Did you meet because of vore? Or did you meet IRL and ended up finding you both enjoy it??

I haven't met anyone from here, and IRL I don't meet people 'because of vore'. There are invitations, but they're usually from naive people who don't think much further than their momentary libido, also I'm over 30 by now so there's an age range where that's creepy now no matter what they insist on.

Me, as a gay guy, would love more than anything to meet a guy who shares my interests and is a pred, or a guy I could get into vore and 'corrupt' into the pred of my dreams lol

Would you appreciate the attempt to 'corrupt' you into being straight? No? It doesn't work that way? Maybe don't do that then. No offense, but usually the process in someone's head for that is all kinds of creepy. You get a chance to talk about your fetishes of course, and they might do it as a favor, and it might awaken something if you're lucky.

I'm just very curious about this, because it is something I very much wish I could have myself.

I think it's fair for you to want this in a relationship, you should be open with your partners about it and accept every lost relationship due to this additional bottleneck, or accept relinquishing the expectation if the person you end up finding is perfect save for being averse to it.


Just a word of advice for everyone trying to use this place as their dating site:
The people who want it are usually the least reasonable people when it comes to making it happen. All the girls I met trying for that usually have heavy life issues that prevent them from being into people, and from what they tell me about the guys on here, man, it probably ain't better. Chances are your prospects have been greatly screwed over by like 10 creeps before you even knew about them. Even higher chances? You're the creep and you just don't know it yet.

I know of like 3 relationships found on here, that's considering I've been here for 9 years and active daily save for the last year due to work and this one due to COVID. And one of them in one case it was because the girl had a terminal condition and a long distance relationship was all she could get. The other two are also long distance - what do you expect? It's the internet. If you're not upper middle class with your life together and able to just move to a different country or state for some faceless chat entity, it's probably a disservice to your life.

[AshLovehart]

I'm curious to know how many people want/have a boyfriend/girlfriend who is into vore just as much as you are?

Fortunately I'm not too hung up on that. Though I guess in the off-chance someone on here somehow becomes my gf they'd luck out on getting someone to play along, but we're on the internet and everyone is god knows where, so actually getting together becomes a less than realistic feat even though half the site worth of women can get themselves attracted to me. What, are you going to quit your day job and fly to Guam?

Do you want/have a pred bf/gf? or a prey bf/gf?

Not too hung up on this.

Did you meet because of vore? Or did you meet IRL and ended up finding you both enjoy it??

I haven't met anyone from here, and IRL I don't meet people 'because of vore'. There are invitations, but they're usually from naive people who don't think much further than their momentary libido, also I'm over 30 by now so there's an age range where that's creepy now no matter what they insist on.

Me, as a gay guy, would love more than anything to meet a guy who shares my interests and is a pred, or a guy I could get into vore and 'corrupt' into the pred of my dreams lol

Would you appreciate the attempt to 'corrupt' you into being straight? No? It doesn't work that way? Maybe don't do that then. No offense, but usually the process in someone's head for that is all kinds of creepy. You get a chance to talk about your fetishes of course, and they might do it as a favor, and it might awaken something if you're lucky.

I'm just very curious about this, because it is something I very much wish I could have myself.

I think it's fair for you to want this in a relationship, you should be open with your partners about it and accept every lost relationship due to this additional bottleneck, or accept relinquishing the expectation if the person you end up finding is perfect save for being averse to it.


Just a word of advice for everyone trying to use this place as their dating site:
The people who want it are usually the least reasonable people when it comes to making it happen. All the girls I met trying for that usually have heavy life issues that prevent them from being into people, and from what they tell me about the guys on here, man, it probably ain't better. Chances are your prospects have been greatly screwed over by like 10 creeps before you even knew about them. Even higher chances? You're the creep and you just don't know it yet.

I know of like 3 relationships found on here, that's considering I've been here for 9 years and active daily save for the last year due to work and this one due to COVID. And one of them in one case it was because the girl had a terminal condition and a long distance relationship was all she could get. The other two are also long distance - what do you expect? It's the internet. If you're not upper middle class with your life together and able to just move to a different country or state for some faceless chat entity, it's probably a disservice to your life.

Way to pick and tear apart a genuinely curious question??? I really don't know how else to respond other than check out my other replies on this thread? It's not something I'm too focused on and wouldn't be too disappointed about in a relationship. Like, at the end of the day, its just a fetish, and this is just one of many, many threads curious to know how people would feel to have a partner with shared interest. Its all hypothetical and fantasy stuff.

[KnightleyPaine]

If what you say the documentation will show is the case, then nothing more is required.

However, I realize I may have mistakenly given off the impression I am specifically targeting my reply to you specifically, likely substantiated by the comment on corrupting people.

I apologize and would like to hereby correct this impression that I would in any way, care about you in particular and would like to state for the record that I am in the wrong for not reading more of the thread even though it seemed like just a questionnaire. May this altercation remain as a grim reminder.

[pika2]

God I wish... Maybe some day...

[Ruthborn]

I have a girl, she knows about my fetishes and fantasies and, yes, she likes to sometimes indulge my old vore fantasies when going down on me; pretending to be an imp I had fantasized about as a kid which would come to my bed at night and pull off my pants to eat up my dick, nuts and ass until I had given up my soul for her to eat. She says its cute.
She herself loves seeing other men and women in sexual torment and loves tentacle and vore porn to this end.

[Slappy]

If I were in a romantic relationship, I would need my partner to be at least accepting of my interest in vore. I would also need my partner to have some stuff in common with me that is significant and my interest in vore is a significant part of me. So obviously I would want a partner who is into vore, right?

Well, here's the thing. Checking out vore materials on the internet and coming to this site has made me realise that there are a lot of different elements to vore that can be included, excluded, emphasised and downplayed, and it turns out a lot of common elements like nudity, disposal and most non-oral types of vore are extremely off-putting to me. It feels like if I found someone who is into vore, odds are they would have one or more of those elements as a must-have. At that point, we might as well have completely different kinks with zero overlap.

Therefore I feel like, as far as vore in a romantic relationship goes, I would be better off finding someone who isn't into it but is open to learning about it. Failing that, someone who isn't into it but accepts that I am and takes a "live and let live" attitude towards it. Obviously someone who is into it and whose preferences match up with mine would be ideal, but I'm not holding my breath for that.

[nerdelation8]

Eh, it would be nice but if it doesn’t happen, that’s okay.

[Predator]

It was never a requirement or even something I looked for in particular, but as fate would have it, it was through vore that I met my current partner who now lives with me and will surely be my wife eventually; she’s as much a vorarephile as I am, and the preyest prey to my pred.

[VoidicFang]

This subject is so depressing.

Firstly you have to be ready for the fight about gender roles to pop up as it has in the comments already. It will be brought up because the male to female fetish ratio, and the preferences for dom/sub being against societal norm.

So, you immediately have that mess on your hands.

That's all you need for the subject to be a can of worms.

For me, thinking about this is just a melancholic slate. Firstly, the fetish, for me, is the result of trauma, or at least a large part of my preferences stem from it. I essentially have mommy issues so when I'm dom it's extreme and has to do with avoiding abandonment, and when I sub, I'm looking for that safe place, closeness, and affection I was denied as a child. So I switch between extremes.

All of my exes have either been abusers or were people I saw as easy to control and therefor prevent abandonment with.

For me, this is just a can of worms. I don't plan on having further relationships. I don't know if I'll ever fix these issues. Every other part of my life seems blessed. I'm literally fit, good social life (pre corona), good job, handsome by others standards, and somewhat smart.

I don't think I'll ever have a healthy companion like that though. The problem seems intractable it doesn't matter how much I come to terms with the trauma.

As if that wasn't enough, you have the fact that sharing this with anyone else is essentially a pipe dream, so you have a deep part of you that you can never share with your partner, especially if you're a man due to gender roles.

I don't really think anyone benefits from this post because of all of that. Just involving real life with vore posts is a bad idea. I usually check to see if there are shared experiences, but I mostly see this awkwardness, conflict, and sadness.

Bit of a thesis, but that's the state of things.

[WankersCramp]

That's the dream...

[Meowlin]

I’m definitely not very open about my interest for vore. It will be really hard for me to find someone, when it isn’t something that I talk about. I’m definitely not going to give up, but finding a more predatory boyfriend is kinda hard. Especially since I live in the middle of nowhere. Most guys seem to go for Pred girlfriends, and I can see the appeal. I used to think that my interest in vore would be a secret that I take to the grave until I found this website. It wasn’t as easy for me to find anything when I first discovered it, because I was kind of young. Now that I’m older, I have access to so much more than I ever thought possible. I’m still kinda young, at the ripe age of 21 almost 22, so I have lots of time to find someone still.

[JustSomePrey]

Finding a gf, who is into vore, a pred, and into non-fatal seems practically impossible to me.
1. Most females on here are prey, and I doubt there are any close to my location.
2. The ones that are preds tend to be a tad bit... Sadistic.
3. The few that I have found that fit all three, live so far out of range, it's not even worth attempting.

So, I'll either have to find a girlfriend near me and then, figure out if she'd like vore, hide my vore interest forever, or most likely remain alone.

[Malus]

I did actually meet my boyfriend through a vore site, but not this one.
Thing is though: We started as internet friends over many, many years and it was more that we eventually grew closer as friends to the point of talking to each other every day and then deciding we would meet up and see how things work out.

Starting a relationship online can be pretty tricky. And I have also experienced that not going well.
I would perhaps say that anything easily started is easily broken off, at least that seems to be my experience.

Funnily enough, we did start out with a good bit of difference in preferences and slowly drifted closer in what we like in vore, so to say.

So from my experience, it is really nice to share that and it is a good thing to not have to hide anything from your partner, but I think like with any relationship, it should be more than just the sexual aspect.
If you not only are compatible in terms of vore, but also enjoy each other#s company and share common interests, I think it is a great thing.

[Wolfsage]

I would just be happy to have a girlfriend. Been single my whole life.

Me too.
If she turns out to share my fetish, that's a bonus, but I don't care if she has it or not.

[Thisismyusername]

Hello, I've actually had a few experiences with girlfriends knowing about my vore fetish and have had very mixed results. I'm married now but before I married my wife her and I had dated on and off over the last 10+ years starting out back in high school. I was always so horrified to even think about anyone finding out or somehow just knowing about my fetish so obviously I wasn't extactly being open about it. But, shortly after we graduated and while we were dating again we were hanging out at my house playing a few multiplayer games with her, a mutual friend of ours, and myself. The two of them have always been and still are very artistic and the mutual friend was actually quite comfortable and very open about being a furry to anyone she knew as better than a stranger. She was waiting for a open controller and practicing a few doodles for a commission on FA. I happened to glance over and noticed she had a doodle of a vore scenario and after a bit of shock induced staring I got caught looking with an expression that bluntly showed way too much interest in the image to claim as just a general curiosity. One conversation later and getting pressured into admitting my dirty secret I found out that by some strange coincidence all three of us (from the same grade in a school that had a max population for freshman, sophomore, junior, and senior classes combined of about 250 total) had varying degrees of vore/furry interests. Was an interesting conversation for the rest of the night, for sure. I really wasn't looking for someone with the mutual interest, but I can say it has been very nice.

My (now wife) girlfriend never really showed too much interest in role playing vore or really even a want to talk about anything to do with vore initially, but after we broke up and got back together a year or so later it was and still is definetly something that is brought up and used in role plays quite frequently. Quite perfectly she is mostly a pred and I'm mostly prey so it works out quite nicely.

EDIT: Got a bit side tracked there! My bad. To bring this back full circle and back on to original topic let me just finish by saying that I don't think you should search solely off potential interest in vore. As I mentioned I've had mixed reactions, a few have actually shared the interest to some extent as either a sexual interest or as just a curiosity. Most have just been a "fetish Sweden," just being neutral. Showing understanding of the fact that nearly everyone has their own kinks, showing no real interest in it but also not running away screaming that I'm a freak because of my kink. However, I have had a few negative reactions where they were quite freaked out by it and usually just didn't want to know or hear about it while others were so uncomfortable the relationship ended soon after.

I'd say that if it's a really big part of your sexual life you should think about eventually bringing it up with your partner. I wouldn't sit down on your first date and just start off with, "Hi, my name is Anon. I like vore and going fishing."

[RiskyBoomer]

Yeah I want that, they should be able to accept my very unusual fetisg

[Starduster]

Yeah, I'd love a pred boyfriend or something, with the same kinks as me.

[BigMeatyBits]

There is a part of me that hopes that if I do manage to find a nice lady to be with, she would be into vore. This is mostly because I have this unsettling fear of being with someone who discovers that I hold this particular fetish and would be disgusted by it. I know, a silly thought, but it is one that I can't seem to get rid of. I cannot lie, that fear has actually become somewhat of a hindrance for me, in terms of dating and what not. You'd think someone as old as I am wouldn't care about something so trivial, and yet I do .