Desire to find a boyfriend/girlfriend into vore?

[AshLovehart]

I'm curious to know how many people want/have a boyfriend/girlfriend who is into vore just as much as you are?
Do you want/have a pred bf/gf? or a prey bf/gf?

Did you meet because of vore? Or did you meet IRL and ended up finding you both enjoy it??

Me, as a gay guy, would love more than anything to meet a guy who shares my interests and is a pred, or a guy I could get into vore and 'corrupt' into the pred of my dreams lol


I'm just very curious about this, because it is something I very much wish I could have myself.

[Thebob]

I think this is a part of the rather universal feeling of wanting to find someone who is into similar things as you are. Kink wise someone into BDSM would probably prefer a partner who compliments their interests, or someone into schoolgirls would prefer someone who is into looking like a schoolgirl.

I've only met one person IRL who turned out to be into vore themselves. I've known several other people that were able to humor my fetish and use it quite well. It is definitely a major bonus to have someone who can fulfill your fetishes and fantasies really well.

[MrSinister1990]

I'd love to find a gf that was into vore. But its really hard as there are lots of guys that pretend to be girls on here for whatever reason.
Would be the ultimate goal for me though.

[Miridium]

Would be a dream come true.

[exiledtiger]

My mate, we met in person "normally" (wasn't from online or anything.) Eventually were dating, and I introduced her to vore and furry things as well. It took a little bit of sharing and explaining, expressing why I liked it, but it wasn't long until she was as into it as I am!
It is great to be able to share things like this with somebody, so I'm very glad of that.

[Caesar]

I... don't know. I'm married now, quite happily really. But vore has always been this secret part of my life and personality that I both love and hate. I've often thought of sharing about my fetish or how things would have been different if I had sought out a partner already into it...

But then I feel conflicted and inevitably settle on taking this secret with me to my grave.

[TheBeck]

Hey, I can dream, can't I?

[PhantomWolf]

I believe I may have IRL, She's also into nerdy things as well. I'm very optimistic Wish us luck guys!

[Furiku]

My boyfriend is partly into it. Sometimes he'll say vorish stuff to me, and do other stuff! :3

[Dekkard2]

It'd be cool to have a gf into vore but it's not something I would base a relationship on. Much like getting a girlfriend, period, if it happens cool if not I'll be ok.

[auric]

Yeah I'll make them into it.

[TheUnitCircle]

I would prefer my partner not even know I have this fetish. I do not want to share in this with someone else, and would prefer that it be a secret thing.

[Borealis]

Absolutely, sure. Even if there was a bit of a mismatch in preferences (which is actually a statistical likelihood in a heterosexual relationship between two vore fans, if you were to play around with it there would be some give and take, and I think sometimes people have a tendency to forget that) then at the very least there would be some mutual understanding about this side of ourselves which in itself would be a comforting thing. But as a couple of people have mentioned, even though this is a kink/fetish site I do think it's fair to note that there are far more solid things to build a relationship on than shared kinks on each other's sexual compasses.

I've been in a furry relationship previously, and yeah it was a good icebreaker and a nice thing to both have. But, honestly, I can see parallels to this discussion, and I think at the time it felt like some fellow male furs thought I'd hit some sort of jackpot, but... Nah, it really is just a shared interest when all is said and done and I'd put this in the same category. Yeah it'd be cool, great even, but it's not something I actively seek from partners.

[Chameleonette]

I feel like this would be a hard thing to breach in a relationship if it wasn't mutual and at the same time, I don't think it's particularly healthy to look for a relationship based off of a fetish. If it happens, that's cool. But I think I would have trouble telling a significant other about this fetish/kink. Hell, my ex was not part of this community, but used to threaten to eat our guild members and consider himself a half-beast. I never once had the guts to tell him about my interest in vore.

I would hope people look for things in a person much deeper than a shared fetish. I would only maybe bring it up with someone I was incredibly comfortable with and already had connected with for many other reasons. Otherwise, I feel like it puts too much expectation on one party or both parties to fulfill the other's fetish wants/needs. I rather like using fictional characters to push these desires/needs on instead, since there's no guilt attached, no chance of a real and unhealthy relationship resulting, it doesn't involve using a real person for fetish wants, and ultimately it's just a safe outlet to indulge in. That way, it's a fantasy that remains a safe fantasy and no chance of being judged or otherwise developing into something potentially problematic.

If I hooked up with someone from the community, it would have to be for reasons other than just this shared interest/fetish. I don't feel it's nearly enough to build a stable relationship on alone. And I would, frankly, hope that a partner was more interested in me for me rather than just what they could get out of me to sate such wants/desires. But in a relationship built off of more than that, with just the the fetish in common and as a part (and not the whole), I think it would nice to have someone that enjoyed mutually exploring that sometimes. But I would not seek to have a relationship with someone just because they were into vore and/or lined up with my vore preferences, or have the relationship revolve around it. I feel that's latching onto someone for the wrong reason(s) and putting potentially unfair expectations on them, as well as treating them more like an outlet for a fetish than a person I care deeply for.

That's just the way that I feel about it, though.

[stearwing]

No.

[AshLovehart]

I... don't know. I'm married now, quite happily really. But vore has always been this secret part of my life and personality that I both love and hate. I've often thought of sharing about my fetish or how things would have been different if I had sought out a partner already into it...

But then I feel conflicted and inevitably settle on taking this secret with me to my grave.

See, for me, I don't actively go looking for a partner into vore, but one important thing I do like to find out with my partner early on is if we share anny similar sexual interests/kinks. If I'm not sure/nervous, I try to play it slow if they say very 'normal' things, and try to open the door a bit for us both and mention that I have some more 'impossible' fantasies/kinks, and if THAT doesn't work, I either just shyly keep it to myself, or if they seem very curious/interested in knowing, I shyly tell them. One thing I don't think I could ever feel comfortable with is going through a relationship with my partner NOT knowing my fantasies. Even if they end up not into it, I'd much rather them know than to have to feel like I'm hiding something.

[jaggedjagd]

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[BusinessAsUsual]

Much like a few others, while I won't seek someone out simply because they're a vorarephile, it would be a miracle on ice if the person I wind up with shares this weird fetish. I'd honestly love having an easy way to turn them on with a dirty little secret that only the two of us share.

The only problem comes in when they don't play a prey role.

[HungryScorpion]

While a vorarephile gf would be amazing, I don't ever see it happening.

[GastricAztec]

I’ve had multiple girlfriends who were into vore, they wanted to swallow shrunken people. I didn’t make them that way, they just already were.