cranberryknights1 wrote:Hmm,based on what you said I think in those cases the artist is likely uncomfortable putting a gender label on there pred and even if your asking politely it makes them feel like they have to decide one or the other to give you a answer which irritates them and causes them to respond to you rudely like telling you to leave even if all you did was ask that simple question. Whether that's the case or something else there's no real reason to respond like that though and those artist need to chill.
Good point, as a rule of thumb, assume people uncomfortable about gender questions are using non-standard gender.
