MrGrimlock wrote:(Should probably mention: not trying to start a flame war, just voicing my own opinion/asking for other's opinions)
Could someone kindly remind me WHAT exactly is so """""attractive""""" or """""sexy""""" about vore involving digestion AND children as prey?
I honestly fail to see how it's either of those in any way shape or form, and frankly, I feel like it condones child abuse in a lot of ways, especially if they're unwilling. It doesn't really matter if it's a fictional kink or not, it still involves a child getting hurt in some way. Have people really lost all sense of morality for the sake of getting views for their stuff?
I find the concept itself to be very sickening. There's no reason a child should be put through that kind of torment, even over minor things like "Oh, I did bad in school" and such. I myself enjoy vore, and a lot of other kinks, but I think there ought to be a universal rule of "if there's a kid involved, no hurting/killing them".
I dunno what y'all think... though for the ones that actually make/condone that kinda stuff, I think I have a pretty good idea what you think. >.>
I'm not convinced you *want* an answer. I'll *try* an answer it, but you're going to really have to open your mind and consider my feelings on this, cuz my reasons are complex, and they're *uncomfortable.*
I can't speak for everyone, I can only speak for myself, but my feelings are *not unique* on this matter.
A lot of people have really complicated sexual kinks from trauma as children. Some get it from *being* raped. A lot of convicted pedophiles (I saw the above post talking about definitions, but I have my own, different convictions, but I don't consider myself in contest with that post), are people who were *themselves* abused. Its a dangerous trap of alien comfort, sort of like the people who repeatedly only hook up with individuals who will abuse them. Abuse victims get trapped in mental patterns where they don't feel that the world is *right* unless they're putting themselves back in a bad place.
Those who *don't* do this, sometimes simply develop fetishes and then express those in the safest way they can.
The problem with *any* media that sexualizes children is that you have to take it on *faith* that they're not creating the work for the purposes of grooming children for actual abuse, or otherwise somehow reaching out to them to cause premature sexual awakenings. I don't know when I had mine, but, I've ALWAYS found vore deeply sexual... from a *very early age*. I've been into cock-vore since I think I was... 7 at the *latest*, and vore my *entire life* I think, but, if you are alarmed to see predators eating children and getting away with it in *public media*, I can understand your concern. I have the same reaction as you.
I do NOT like seeing children hurt in public media. I don't want kids being eaten or hurt in a "realistic setting". I can get that revulsion, I am familiar with it. I've felt it.
I can't enjoy children being digested without a few things... it has to have a suspension of disbelief, obtained by having an unbelievable scenario... *something* needs to be surreal about the whole thing.
The second thing is that it needs to be on a site like this one, where you only run into it if you know what you are *looking* for. If someone is not tagging their frankly problematic material correctly and putting up warnings, they're not working hard enough. You should never run into a child-vore item without knowing what it is first, and then deciding to pursue it or leave it alone. That is how you can take it on faith that the creator is merely expressing a kink (hopefully, faith is faith I mean), and not venting urges that they're not capable of holding in. There *are* dangerous people who hurt kids. In my hometown someone was arrested for kidnapping a kid and they found hentai on his computer of kids being cooked and served. This is super super rare, and doesn't represent most people into child-vore, but, I won't fucking lie and say they're not out there... although they're probably not sane enough to have civil discourse... Either way, if someone is trying to get their works of sexually-charged children more visible, that's a cause for concern, but people who keep it secret and safe and only available to a non-dark-web place that requires proving you yourself are an adult, like here on Eka's? I don't see the problem! No kids are allowed here anyway, so by posting here and only here, I'm showing my hope and faith that my own work is used for similarly minded people to experience fantasies *safely* and without actual children involved, hopefully *ever*.
So with that out of the way, WHY... WHY, would I want to do this?
Well, as mentioned earlier, people with complex fetishes were often abused. So yes, I was *abused*. Or more accurately, most of the time I was *around* abuse but because I was the "least attractive" of us kids, I was *spared* while my siblings and cousins were *not*. So not only did I get abused on two separate occassions, but mostly I just got this survivors guilt.
And that gives me this... *weird* bullshit sexual urge to *not survive*. I have a deep, mesmerizing, almost spiritually gratifying release from fantasies of being digested, myself, *as a kid*, because it channels feelings of regret into something I see as positive. By forcing the reality of my past into a heavily processed system of fantasies, I get something thats *mine,* belongs to *me*, and is safe for me to enjoy... It doesn't look safe on the outside, but I feel centered and safe in my world that, I'm not in a bad childhood anymore in-real-life, after I've gotten to see a predator that I somehow trust and am attracted to, devour and digest me according to *my* fetishes. I get to *pretend* I'm being "raped".
Reading about other women with rape fantasies really helped me along in this, especially when I was a teenager. I was really lucky honestly that at a time where someone could be grooming me, I was instead educating myself and coming to an understanding about where I came from and why I have these thoughts, and a lot of brave women who wrote about their rape fantasies, and confessed that it was their way of *handling* their actual irl assaults on their persons? It was cathartic, enlightening, and darkly fascinating... To fantasize about something you do not want actually done to you... but because *you thought it*, and *you controlled it*, it could be as "non-con" as you want and it is still ultimately about you... and not that hideous monster who actually dismantled your life as a child... ...
In a way, this is also why doms and subs have weird relationships, where doms are somehow the "givers" and subs are often picky takers who want to be submissive and be dominated but somehow want to direct everything paradoxically? Its often this... its all this hang-up with the loss of control, and wanting to re-context that loss of control in the safest way possible.
I had to see penises way too young as a kid and became darkly fascinated by them, while also afraid of what would happen to me if I caught their interest more. So, to cope, I write stories about *being caught* by penises and my idealized, animalized, foxy persona getting cock-vored.... and it gives me this sensation like what I survived earlier in life is somehow no longer some arbitrary evil I endured for no goddamn reason, but its now *mine* to use however I want, and I use it *on myself*, and I share it with people who share in my fantasy.
My experiences are my own and do not represent everyone.
But my experiences are not unique.
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